Tips For Helping Teenage Boys Make Healthier Life Decisions

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Parenting a teenage boy can come with ups and downs, but ultimately, parents and caregivers want the best for their son as he grows and develops into an adult.

Many parents are faced with new challenges in our day and age, with advancements in technology and countless new environmental stressors. Learning how to navigate through uncharted waters when it comes to raising a teenage boy can be overwhelming at times, but caregivers who parent from a place of love and concern for their child’s well-being will help their son flourish.

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Modeling Skills That Will Influence Healthier Life Decisions

Many parents may be concerned that their teenage boy is more likely to look to friends or outside sources for guidance on making decisions about his life and future. However, teenagers are more likely to be influenced by their family structure and parental guidance than any other outside sources.

For these reasons, parents should be proactive in their daily choices, as teenagers are looking for authorities to set healthy boundaries and offer guidance for living. This includes everything from eating and sleeping habits to hygiene, self-discipline, communication, relationship skills, self-esteem and more.

As a parent, an important place to begin when it comes to helping teenage boys make healthier life decisions is to analyze what behaviors you may be exemplifying and demonstrating. Whether it feels like this may be the case, your teenage boy is looking to your lead for guidance and learning by your example. Do you take appropriate time for self-care, such as getting adequate rest, eating consistent and healthy meals, and maintaining a balance between work and home life?

Your teenager is likely observing your interactions with others and forming opinions on how to best manage relationships. How do you interact with your spouse and other family members, particularly in the presence of your teenager? Modeling effective communication skills and self-regulation when it comes to emotion will speak volumes to your teenage son, who is developing in this area during this crucial time of his life.

Seeking Out Appropriate Help And Support When Necessary

The responsibility of modeling healthy life decisions and choices to your teenager can be overwhelming in itself, and if you find yourself struggling in a particular area, it is important to know when to ask for help. Thankfully, you are not alone in this journey, and there are countless resources that can help support you as you seek to be a positive influence on your teenage son.

Understanding your limits and knowing when to seek out professional help and guidance are part of being a parent, as is learning how to parent effectively. You may consider:

  • Networking with other parents who have children of similar ages
  • Joining a support group
  • Working with a counselor or therapist who can offer professional parenting guidance and support

Final Word On Helping Teenage Boys Make Wise Decisions

Father And Son Workbench Garage - Addiction HopeRemember that the process of learning how to make healthy life decisions is a life-long journey, one that begins in childhood and carries on through adulthood. While there are aspects of life that you can influence in your teenage son, there will be many variables that may be out of your control.

Many life lessons are inevitably taught through trial and error and through experiencing life itself, and offering your teenage son unconditional love and support through each stage of his life is an important aspect of his growth and development.

Community Discussion: Share Your Thoughts Here!

As a parent of a teenage boy, which aspects of your parenting journey have been effective in teaching your son how to make healthy life choices? What encouragement might you offer to others who are seeking to help their teenage boy make healthy choices on his own?

About Jacquelyn Ekern, MS, LPC

Jacquelyn Ekern founded Addiction Hope in January, 2013, after experiencing years of inquiries for addiction help by visitors to our well regarded sister site, Eating Disorder Hope. Many of the eating disorder sufferers that contact Eating Disorder Hope also had a co-occurring issue of addiction to alcohol, drugs, and process addictions.