Drug Addiction in the Suburbs: What Can Concerned Parents Do?

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Contributor: Megan Wilson, BS, CADC, Addiction Program Coordinator, Timberline Knolls Residential Treatment Center

Drug addiction, especially with pharmaceutical medications, is always an area of great concern throughout our country. Moreover, addiction can be as common in suburban communities as it is in urban areas. So what are parents to do within the confines of their own families?

The first step suburban parents need to do is question their perception of the characteristics of someone who struggles with substance use. Stereotypes of an addict can be the basis for denial for both the individual struggling with substances and for their loved ones.

Typecasts must be challenged. The thought of “my child would never take drugs” could blind a parent from awareness of the warning signs of substance use.

According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, over 1 million youths (ages 12-17) meet the criteria for a substance use disorder. These individuals can also be at risk of dying from an overdose.

Once parents realize that addiction does not discriminate and can, in fact, impact their child, they can heighten their awareness to warning signs in their children.

Physical Signs

Any dramatic change in a child’s appearance is worthy of note. Sudden weight gain or loss, altered appetite, inability to sleep can be connected to addiction, as can be nosebleeds, changes in the appearance of their eyes, or shakes and seizures.

A decline in personal hygiene or grooming habits could also be a manifestation of drug involvement.

Behavioral Signs

Any disruption in school regarding grades, attendance or friends is relevant as is a lack of interest in hobbies or sports.

Shifts in friends, asking for money or missing valuables around the home is often a sign of drug usage.

Missing prescriptions is absolutely a red flag. Extreme behavior changes such as isolating, secrecy and lying are critical.

Psychological Signs

An unexplained personality or attitude change in a child is important to watch out for along with changes in mood, extreme irritability or even sudden laughter for no reason. Intense lethargy or paranoia should be considered worrisome.

The bottom line is: if the child that a parent “used to know” is no longer there and a stranger has seemingly taken their place, drug affiliation should be considered. From that point, a discussion should take place.

A parent needs to express their concern and love to the child, free from accusations, condemnation or judgment. Only then, might a child tell the truth about possible drug use.

Denial is far more the expected response. At that point, a parent must establish and maintain boundaries for safety.

If the child appears impaired, they will not be allowed to use the car, or a cell phone will be taken away. Routine drug testing can be required by the parents to ensure sobriety.

If all attempts by a parent fail, professional help may be required. It is imperative to understand that the earlier the intervention, the better the chances for complete and lasting recovery.

Megan WilsonAbout the Author: Megan Wilson, BS, CADC has been working at Timberline Knolls since 2013. As the Addictions Program Coordinator, she facilitates psycho-educational group therapy, completes substance use assessments, and takes on the leadership role of the Addictions Specialist team.

Megan meets with residents individually to support a better understanding and application of 12 step.


[1]: https://teens.drugabuse.gov/national-drug-alcohol-facts-week/drug-facts-chat-day-drug-use

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Published on March 2, 2018.
Reviewed By: Jacquelyn Ekern, MS, LPC on March 2, 2018.
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