Tag Archives: Marriage

Learning To Validate When Your Spouse is Hurt By Porn Addiction

Couple Preparing to Transition Home After Rehab for Prescription Drug Addiction When we grow up we experience a range of responses to our hurts, joys and concerns. These become deeply formative messages about how to deal with our own emotions and those of others in the future. “Many of us heard statements like, “it’s not that bad!”, “bless your heart, it’ll pass”, “get over it”, or [...]
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Why Sexual Addiction Leads Couples into Communication Confusion

Married couple If you let me stay for the weekend in your home whilst you were out of town you might lay down some ground rules (often these are implied by culture). For example, you might assume I wouldn’t drive your car, or sleep in your bed, or take your favorite cookies with me when I leave. [...]
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Is Pornography Disrupting Your Marriage?

Marriage and couple struggling The debates about pornography us in marriage are fierce! Is, or isn’t pornography a problem? Does it affect our sex lives? Does it change our ability to be intimate? Why should we care if it is a secret? The list goes on. Researchers and therapists alike hold a number of positions, yet there seems to [...]
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Rebuilding a Marriage that has been Affected by Sexual Addiction

Marriage Scar tissue always forms around a wound when it heals, it is tough and can be an irritant—a marriage can carry a similar feel when sexual addiction has cut it open. Assuming that the addicted partner is in recovery and working their program, then rebuilding can begin. Beginning the Process of Rebuilding a Marriage The [...]
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